Hi all! I’m very, very, VERY new to makeup, but I’ve run into a constant problem no matter what I do. My features are quite bold without makeup so every time I put on a little bit it just feels too glamorous / aggressive for most of the situations I wear it for. Here’s a comparison:

[me with makeup](https://i.imgur.com/uKjj1lb.jpg)

[me with just some leftover mascara on](https://i.imgur.com/JMMVe47.jpg) What can I do to soften my functionality? I am trying to use lighter purple pinks like ‘pink’ and white pencil on my lower waterline but have mixed success. Even with these adjustments, only the smallest touches will do, it is very easy to revive in intensity rather than in softness. I would be grateful for any advice on this! Also, if anyone has any general advice (I know my mix looks terrible in a photo, this is my next big project) I would really appreciate any resources that you think are good for my face! Thank you very much to everyone PS here is what I wear in the eyeshadow “look”: Milani Pure Passion palette, “Biggest Flirt” and “Truth or Bare” Eyeliner: Araceli Ojos Perfectos Liquid Eyeliner, “Night” Blush: Laura Geller Palette Central Park, “Strawberry Fields” Lip Primer: Sephora Jelly Melt, “Samba – Purple” Lip Color: Too Faced Peach Puff, “Boy, Bye!” Lip pencil: J. Cat Wholly Addicted pencil, “Rosy Nude”