Hope the hair discussion is ok. So I’m a natural blonde and my curly hair beautifully when I was younger and was pretty wavy in high school, but now it’s just completely pun intended and pretty healthy, and it doesn’t hold ANY kind of curl when I put it on. loop, or even headboard really. As soon as I brush it, it just goes out of the way, not even the frizz. Is there a good product for this without completely cementing my hair with hairspray ?? Also, a lady who cut my hair told me to dye them so they hold the curls better. BUT I love my hair color, so I don’t want to change the color at all, just for the sake of trimming the shaft for better curl?